Seems as if the DIM doesn't see the driver. I just checked the driver name GENM320$ in your protocol.ini. This is no standard name for the driver interface module, there only WRND32$, WRND322$ WRND323$ etc is being searched for. Did you modify that name ?

I think I completely misunderstood what you meant with "greyed". If it is about the context menu item in the xCenter, there are two kinds of submenus

First is "Add widget to tray" - within this menu the XWireless LAN Monitor entry is always greyed out.. In this case you would try to add the monitor to a tray, waht is not allowed.

Second is "Create new widget", here the menu item is always active. You could even add it if  no wireless LAN driver was installed

What kind of sumbenu is it ?

But first of all please make sure that the standard drivername is being used.